Please don't read that much into sexism. I'm a fellow geek who follows a bit different paradigm in all that I do.
And a basic fact before anything else: Women and men ARE different. There, I said it; the pink elephant in current American society.
Now, I've met men and women who are all over the place. Some are in sciences, others in humanities, others have their own business. And alongside that, I'm a dom. I have a submissive, and live with 3 other people. Both us guys are dating her, and the other guy is dating the other gal in the house. Is it "different" than most relationships? Yes, but we work.
In our relationship, some would see what I do as abuse. Ive put bruises on her the size of an apple, bound her for hours, cut her with knives, chocked her until she passed out, and other acts. She trusts me completely in that I could do anything. Yet, if she asked me for something, I would move the Earth to do so.
It would be just as unfair to make comments like "Why arent women in the sciences? how did we screw them up?" jut as it would be "Men are smarter in the sciences than women". When you have a culture say that you are supposed to do better in X instead of Y, of course there's bias.
And go figure, Im more of a supporter of womens' rights than most women are just for the fact I am a dom.
And a basic fact before anything else: Women and men ARE different. There, I said it; the pink elephant in current American society.
Now, I've met men and women who are all over the place. Some are in sciences, others in humanities, others have their own business. And alongside that, I'm a dom. I have a submissive, and live with 3 other people. Both us guys are dating her, and the other guy is dating the other gal in the house. Is it "different" than most relationships? Yes, but we work.
In our relationship, some would see what I do as abuse. Ive put bruises on her the size of an apple, bound her for hours, cut her with knives, chocked her until she passed out, and other acts. She trusts me completely in that I could do anything. Yet, if she asked me for something, I would move the Earth to do so.
It would be just as unfair to make comments like "Why arent women in the sciences? how did we screw them up?" jut as it would be "Men are smarter in the sciences than women". When you have a culture say that you are supposed to do better in X instead of Y, of course there's bias.
And go figure, Im more of a supporter of womens' rights than most women are just for the fact I am a dom.