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We didn't. I met a girl overseas and within 24 hours we moved in together. Obsessive, all encompassing, "can't take my eyes off you" love.

I moved continents to be with her; 8 years together, married for 4.

Then suddenly, early last year, it all fell apart as quickly as it started. Finalizing divorce next month.

It was crazy, but I feel blessed to have experienced it. We're still good friends, but the thrill is gone, well and truly. I was actually relieved when she said she was having an affair. Good, I thought, better you than me; now let's end this.



Stories like yours make me wonder if "marriage for life" is even a worthwhile goal.


It's hard, because people change through life. But I guess if you can change together, that you found a pretty good match.


It certainly is not for everyone. We should accept that everything has its lifetime and end it when it is over instead of prolonging it.


I think we anticipated that it could turn cold equally fast and intensely, but good for you for making it work 8 years. Sorry about your divorce.


That sounds like a great experience. I'm sorry about your divorce, but sharing something like that with someone for eight years sounds wonderful.




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